MAY LYSSA

Rise and Shine My Sister

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is
Don't stay because you think "it will get better" .
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you

You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships. ..
There is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
Make him miss you sometimes...
when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
You should know that:You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone
and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.
Make the right one.